16 Of The Best Quarter-Life Crisis Novels

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If you’ve ever felt stuck between who you are and who you thought you would be, don’t worry; we’ve all been there. The uncertainty, self-doubt, career confusion, and shifting relationships that often define your twenties and early thirties have inspired some of the most relatable stories in contemporary literature. It’s perhaps this reason why there’s always a demand for the best quarter-life crisis novels – books that capture the messy, transformative experience of figuring out adulthood. Whether the protagonist is navigating a dead-end job, questioning long-held ambitions, or looking for a sense of purpose, these novels offer comfort and perspective. They remind us how feeling lost is a part of finding our way. Join us at What We Reading for our top books that explore the challenges and revelations that come with life’s first major identity crisis. Here are the best quarter-life crisis novels to add to your TBR pile.

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Conversations With Friends – Sally Rooney

Kicking off our list of the best quarter-life crisis novels is Sally Rooney’s Conversations with Friends. Frances is twenty-one years old, cool-headed, and sharply observant. Bobbi, her best friend, is beautiful and endlessly self-possessed. Lovers at school, the two young women now perform spoken word poetry together in Dublin, where a woman named Melissa spots their potential. Drawn into Melissa’s orbit, Frances is impressed by the older woman’s sophisticated home and handsome husband, Nick. 

However amusing Frances and Nick’s flirtation may appear to begin with, it soon gives way to a strange intimacy neither of them expects. As Frances tries to keep her life in check, her relationship increasingly resists her control. Desperate to reconcile herself to the desires and vulnerabilities of her body, Frances’ intellectual certainties begin to yield to something new: a painful and disorientating way of living moment to moment. 

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Writers & Lovers – Lily King

Blindsided by her mother’s death and wrecked by a recent love affair, Casey Peabody has arrived in Massachusetts in the summer of 1997 without a plan. A former gold prodigy, she now waits tables in Harvard Square and rents a tiny, mouldy room at the side of a garage where she works on the novel she’s been writing for the past six years. At thirty-one, Casey is still clutching onto something nearly all of his friends have given up on: the determination to live a creative life. 

When she falls for two very different men at the same time, her world fractures even more. Casey’s fight to fulfil her creative ambitions and balance the conflicting demands of art and life is challenged in ways that push her to the brink. Writers & Lovers is a transfixing novel that explores the terrifying and exhilarating leap between the end of one phase of life and the beginning of another. 

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Yolk – Mary H.K. Choi

Jayne Baek is barely getting by. She shuffles through fashion school, saddled with a deadbeat boyfriend, clout-chasing friends, and a wretched eating disorder that she’s not fully ready to confront. But that’s New York City, right? At least she isn’t in Texas anymore and is finally living in a city that feels right for her. 

On the other hand, her sister June is dazzlingly rich with a high-flying finance job and a massive apartment. Unlike Jayne, June has never struggled a day in her life. Until she’s diagnosed with uterine cancer. Suddenly, those estranged sisters who have nothing in common are living together. Because sisterly obligations are kind of important when one of you is dying. 

Good Material – Dolly Alderton

Andy loves Jen. Jen loved Andy. And he can’t work out why she stopped. Set adrift on a sea of heartbreak, Andy clings to the idea of solving the puzzle of his ruined relationship. Because if he can find the answer to that, then maybe Jen can find her way back to him. But Andy still has a lot to learn, not least his ex-girlfriend’s side of the story. 

In this sharply funny and exquisitely relatable story of romantic disaster and friendship, Dolly Alderton serves up a love story with two endings, demonstrating once again why she is one of the best authors to turn to if you’re looking for books about transitions, personal growth, and making sense of the messiness of everyday life. 

The Rachel Incident – Caroline O’Donoghue

Rachel is a student working at a bookstore when she meets James, and it’s love at first sight. Effervescent and insistently heterosexual, James soon invites Rachel to be his roommate, and the pair begin a friendship that changes the course of their lives forever. Together, they run riot through the streets of Cork City, trying to maintain a bohemian existence while the threat of the financial crash looms before them. 

When Rachel falls in love with her married professor, Dr Fred Byrne, James helps her devise a reading at their local bookstore, with the goal that she might seduce him afterwards. But Fred has other desires. So begins a series of secrets and compromises that intertwine the fates of all these eclectic characters. Aching with unrequited love, shot through sparkling humour, The Rachel Incident is one of the best books about figuring out your life. 

Either/Or – Elif Batuman

Selin is the luckiest person in her family: the only one who was born in America and got to go to Harvard. Now it’s sophomore year, 1996, and Selin knows she needs to make it count. The first order of business: to figure out the meaning of everything that happened over the previous summer. Guided by her literature syllabus and more worldly peers, Selin reaches certain conclusions about the universal importance of parties, alcohol, and sex, and resolves to execute them in practice – no matter the cost. 

Unfolding with propulsive logic and the intensity of youth, Either/Or is hilarious, revelatory, and unforgettable; its gripping narrative will confront you with searching questions that persist long after the last page, making it one of the best books about self-discovery and finding your true self. 

The New Me – Halle Butler

Thirty-year-old Millie just can’t pull it all together. Misanthropic and morose, she spends her days killing time at a thankless temp job until she can return home to her empty apartment, where she oscillates wildly between self-recrimination and mild delusion, fixating on all the little ways she may change her life. Then she watches TV until she drops off to sleep, and the cycle begins again. 

When the possibility of a full-time job offer arises, it seems to bring the better life she’s envisioning – one that involves nicer clothes, fresh produce, perhaps even financial independence. But with it also comes the paralysing realisation, lurking just below the surface, of just how hollow that vision has become. Darkly hilarious and devastating, The New Me is a dizzying descent into the mind of a young woman trapped in the funhouse of American consumer culture. 

Queenie – Candice Carty-Williams

Queenie Jenkins is a twenty-five-year-old Jamaican British woman living in London, straddling two cultures and fitting into neither. She works at a national newspaper, where she’s constantly forced to compare herself to her white middle-class peers. After a messy breakup with her long-term white boyfriend, Queenie seeks comfort in all the wrong places… including several hazardous men who do a good job of occupying brain space and a bad job of affirming her self-worth. 

As Queenie careens from one questionable choice to another, she finds herself wondering, “What are you doing? Why are you doing it? Who do you want to be?” – all of the questions today’s women must face in a world trying to answer for them. 

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Luster – Raven Leilani

Edie is just trying to survive. She’s messing up in her dead-end admin job in an all-white office, is sleeping with all the wrong men, and has failed at the one thing that’s ever meant anything to her: painting. No one seems to care that she doesn’t really know what she’s doing with her life beyond looking for her next hook-up. And then she meets Eric, a white middle-aged archivist with a suburban family, including a wife who has sort of agreed to an open marriage and an adopted black daughter. 

As if navigating the constantly shifting landscape of sexual and racial politics as a young black woman wasn’t already hard enough, with nowhere else to go, Edie finds herself falling head-first into Eric’s home and family. Razor-sharp, provocatively page-turning, and surprisingly tender, Luster is a painfully funny debut novel about what it means to be young now. 

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Everyone In This Room Will Someday Be Dead – Emily R. Austin

Gilda, a twenty-something, atheist, animal-loving lesbian, cannot stop ruminating about death. Desperate for relief from her panicky mind and alienated from her repressive family, she responds to a flyer for free therapy at a local Catholic church and finds herself being greeted by Father Jeff, who assumes she’s there for a job interview. Too embarrassed to correct him, Gilda is abruptly hired to replace the recently deceased receptionist, Grace. 

In between trying to memorise the lines to Catholic mass, hiding the fact that she has a new girlfriend, and erecting a dirty dish tower in her crumbling apartment, Gilda strikes up an email correspondence with Grace’s old friend. She can’t bear to ignore the kindly old woman who has been trying to reach her friend through the church inbox, but she also can’t bear to break the bad news. So, she begins impersonating Grace via email. 

Exciting Times – Naoise Dolan

Ava moved to Hong Kong to find happiness, but so far, it hasn’t worked out. Since she left Dublin, she’s been spending her days teaching English to rich children, and her nights avoiding petulant roommates in her cramped apartment. When Ava befriends Julian, a witty British banker, he offers a shortcut into a lavish life her meagre salary could never dream of. The pair strike up a relationship, but Julian’s job soon takes him back to London, leaving Ava unsure where things stand. 

Enter Edith. A Hong Kong-born lawyer, striking and ambitious, Ava wants to be her – and wants her. When Julian announces he is returning to Hong Kong, however, she faces a fork in the road. Politically alert, heartbreakingly raw, and dryly funny, Exciting Times is another great book for a quarter-life crisis about the great freedoms and greater uncertainties of modern love. 

Sweetbitter – Stephanie Danler

New to New York City, twenty-two-year-old Tess lands a job as a “backwaiter” at a celebrated downtown Manhattan restaurant. What follows is the story of her education: in champagne and cocaine, love and lust, dive bars and fine dining rooms, as she learns to navigate the chaotic, enchanting, punishing life she has chosen. 

As her appetites awaken – for food and wine, but also for knowledge, experience, and belonging – Tess finds herself helplessly drawn into a darkly alluring love triangle. In Sweetbitter, Stephanie Danler deftly conjures with heart-stopping accuracy the nonstop and high-adrenaline world of the restaurant industry and evokes the infinite possibilities, the unbearable beauty, and the fragility and brutality of being young in New York. 

Milk Teeth – Jessica Andrews

A girl grows up in the north of England amid scarcity, precarity and the toxic culture of heroin chic, believing that she needs to make herself smaller to claim presence in the world. 

Years on, as a young woman with unattainable ideals, she meets someone who calls everything into question and is forced to confront episodes from her past. Their relationship takes her from London to Barcelona and the precipice of a new life, full of sensuality. Yet she still feels unease. In the sticky Mediterranean heat, among tropical plants and secluded beaches, she must choose what form her adult life should take and learn how to feel deserving of love and care. 

Green Dot – Madeline Gray

At twenty-four, Hera is a clump of unmet potential. To her, the future is nothing but an exhausting thought exercise, one depressing hypothetical after another. She’s sharp in more ways than one, adrift in a smug malaise, until her new job moderating the comments section of an online news outlet introduces her to Arthur, a middle-aged journalist. Though she’s preferred women to men for years now, she soon finds herself falling into an all-consuming affair with him. The only problem? Arthur has a wife – and she has no idea Hera exists. 

With its daringly specific and intimate voice, Green Dot is a darkly hilarious and deeply felt examination of the joys and indignities of coming of age into adulthood against the pitfalls of the twenty-first century and the winding, torturous and often very funny journey we take in deciding who we are, and who we want to be. 

Real Life – Brandon Taylor

Almost everything about Wallace is at odds with the Midwestern university town where he is working uneasily toward a biochemistry degree. An introverted young man from Alabama, black and queer, he has left behind his family without escaping the long shadow of his childhood. For reasons of self-preservation, Wallace has enforced a wary distance even within his own circle of friends. 

But, over the span of one late-summer weekend, a series of confrontations with colleagues and an unexpected encounter with an ostensibly straight, white classmate conspire to fracture his defences while exposing long-hidden currents of hostility and desire within their community. Real Life is a novel of profound and lacerating power, a story that asks if it’s ever really possible to overcome our private wounds, and at what cost. 

How Should A Person Be? – Sheila Heti

For reasons multiple and mysterious, Sheila finds herself in a quandary of self-doubt, questioning how a person should be in the world. Inspired by her friend Margaux, a painter, and her seemingly untortured ability to live and create, Sheila casts Margaux as material, embarking on a series of recordings in which nothing is too personal, too ugly, or too banal to be turned into art. 

Along the way, Sheila confronts a cast of painters who are equally blocked in an age in which the blow job is the ultimate art form. She begins questioning her desire to be important, her quest to be both a leader and a pupil, and her unwillingness to sacrifice herself. Searching, uncompromising, and yet mordantly funny, How Should a Person Be? is a brilliant depiction of art-making and friendship from the psychic underground of one of Canada’s most lauded writers.