“You always think your pain is the most painful. You always think it’s uniquely awful.”
If you’re searching for books like Acts of Desperation, you’re likely drawn to stories that don’t shirk away from the messy, uncomfortable sides of love. Megan Nolan’s Acts of Desperation is a stark, intimate depiction of obsession, emotional dependency, and toxic relationships, delivered with painful honesty. It leaves many readers searching for similar literary fiction that explores love at its most consuming and destructive. This list of books similar to Acts of Desperation brings together novels about toxic relationships, emotional spirals, and psychologically intense connections that feel impossible to untangle. These are the stories where love becomes fixation, self-worth is tagged with desire, and characters often find themselves hauled deeper into relationships that unravel them. Whether it’s unhealthy relationships, obsessive love stories, or character-driven tales with emotional depth, these picks all capture that same raw intensity. If Nolan’s work stayed with you, these books will too.
Acts Of Desperation Summary
In the first scene of this provocative novel, our unnamed narrator encounters a magnetic writer named Ciaran and falls, against her better judgment, completely in his power. After a brief, all-consuming romance, he abruptly rejects her, sending her into a tailspin of jealous obsession and longing. If he ever comes back to her, she resolves to hang onto him and his love at all costs, even if it destroys her.
Part breathless confession, part lurid critique, Acts of Desperation renders a consciousness split between rebellion and submission, between escaping degradation and eroticising it, between loving and being lovable. With unsettling, electric precision, Nolan dissects one of life’s most elusive mysteries in Acts of Desperation: Why do we want what we want, and how do we want it?
Normal People – Sally Rooney
Kicking off our list of books like Acts of Desperation is another story all about tangled relationships, Sally Rooney’s Normal People. At school, Marianne and Connell pretend not to know one another. He’s popular and well-adjusted, while she is lonely, proud, and intensely private. Nevertheless, a strange and indelible connection grows between the two teenagers – one that they are determined to keep.
A year on, they’re both studying at Trinity College in Dublin. Marianne has found her feet in a new social world, while Connell hangs on the sidelines, shy and uncertain. Throughout their years in college, Marianne and Connell circle one another, straying toward other people and possibilities, yet always magnetically, irresistibly drawn back together. Then, as she veers into self-destruction and he begins to search for meaning elsewhere, each must confront how far they are willing to go to save the other.
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Luster – Raven Leilani
Edie is just trying to survive. She’s messing up in her dead-end admin job in her all-white office, is sleeping with all the wrong men, and has failed at the only thing that meant anything to her, painting. No one appears to care that she doesn’t really know what she’s doing with her life beyond looking for the next available hook-up. And then she meets Eric, a white middle-aged archivist with a suburban family, including a wife who has sort of agreed to an open marriage and an adopted Black daughter.
As if navigating the constantly shifting landscape of sexual and racial politics as a young Black woman wasn’t already hard enough, with nowhere left to go, Edie finds herself falling headfirst into Eric’s home and family. Similar to Acts of Desperation, Luster is provocatively page-turning and surprisingly tender, all about what it means to be young now.
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My Year Of Rest And Relaxation – Ottessa Moshfegh
Our narrator should be happy, shouldn’t she? She’s young, thin, pretty, a recent Columbia graduate, works an easy job at a hip art gallery, lives in an apartment on the Upper East Side of Manhattan, paid for, like the rest of her needs, by her inheritance. But there is a dark and vacuous hole in her heart, and it isn’t just the loss of her parents, nor the way her Wall Street boyfriend treats her, or her sadomasochistic relationship with her best friend, Reva. It’s the year 2000 in a city aglitter with wealth and possibility; what could be so terribly wrong?
My Year of Rest and Relaxation by Ottessa Moshfegh is a powerful answer to that question. Through the story of a year spent under the influence of a truly mad combination of drugs designed to heal our heroine from her alienation from this world, Moshfegh shows us how reasonable, even necessary, alienation can be.
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Drive Your Plow Over The Bones Of The Dead – Olga Tokarczuk
In a remote Polish village, Janina devotes the dark winter days to studying astrology, translating the poetry of William Blake, and taking care of the summer homes of affluent Warsaw residents. Her reputation as a crank and a recluse is amplified by her not-so-secret preference for the company of animals over humans. Then a neighbour, Big Foot, turns up dead. Soon, over bodies are discovered, in increasingly strange circumstances.
As suspicions mount, Janina inserts herself into the investigation, certain that she knows whodunit. Drive Your Plow Over the Bones of the Dead is a provocative exploration of the murky borderland between sanity and madness, justice and tradition, autonomy and fate, perfect if you loved similar themes in Acts of Desperation.
Exciting Times – Naoise Dolan
Ava moved to Hong Kong to find happiness, but so far, it isn’t working out. When Ava befriends Julian, a wealthy British banker, he offers her a shortcut into a lavish life her meagre salary could never allow. Ava finds herself moving into Julian’s apartment, letting him buy her clothes, and eventually, striking up a sexual relationship with him. When Julian’s job takes him back to London, she stays put, unsure where their relationship stands.
Enter Edith. A Hong Kong-born lawyer, striking and ambitious, she is everything Ava wants to be. But when Julian announces that he’s returning to Hong Kong, she faces a fork in the road. Should she return to the easy compatibility of her life with Julian, or take a leap into the unknown with Edith?
Cleopatra And Frankenstein – Coco Mellors
Twenty-four-year-old British painter Cleo has escaped from England to New York and is still finding her place in the sleepless city when she meets Frank. Twenty years older and a self-made success, Frank’s life is full of all the excesses Cleo lacks. But their impulsive marriage irreversibly changes both their lives and the lives of those closest to them in ways neither of them could have imagined.
Each compulsively readable chapter in Cleopatra and Frankenstein explores the lives of these two characters and their closest connections as they grow older. Like Acts of Desperation, it is as hilarious as it is heartbreaking, entertaining as it is moving, and establishes Coco Mellors as a bold new voice in literary fiction.
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Half His Age – Jennette McCurdy
Waldo is ravenous. Endlessly wanting. And the thing she wants most of all: Mr. Korgy, her creative writing teacher with the wife and the kid and the mortgage and the bills, with the dead dreams and the atrophied looks and the growing paunch. She doesn’t know why she wants him. Is it his passion? His life experience? The fact that he knows books and films and things that she doesn’t?
Or is it purer than that, rooted in their unlikely connection, their kindred spirits, the similar filter with which they each take in the world around them? Or, perhaps, it’s just enough that he sees her when no one else does. Like Acts of Desperation, Half His Age is a rich character study about a young woman and her efforts to be seen, to be desired, and to be loved.
We Play Ourselves – Jen Silverman
Not too long ago, Cass was a promising young playwright in New York, hailed as a fierce new voice. But, at the height of all this attention, Cassie finds herself at the centre of a searing public shaming, and flees to Los Angeles to escape – and reinvent herself. There, she meets her next-door neighbour, Caroline, a magnetic filmmaker on the rise, as well as the pack of teenagers who hang out around her house. They are the subjects of Caroline’s next movie: a semi-documentary which follows the girls’ clandestine after-school activity: a Fight Club inspired by the violent classic.
As Cass is drawn into the film’s orbit, she is awed by Caroline’s drive and confidence. But, over time, she becomes troubled by how deeply Caroline is manipulating the teens in the name of art. With her past proving hard to shake, Cass is forced to reckon with her own ambitions and confront what she has come to believe about the steep price of success.
Part-time reader, part-time rambler, and full-time Horror enthusiast, James has been writing for What We Reading since 2022. His earliest reading memories involved Historical Fiction, Fantasy and Horror tales, which he has continued to take with him to this day. James’ favourite books include The Last (Hanna Jameson), The Troop (Nick Cutter) and Chasing The Boogeyman (Richard Chizmar).
